Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy End-of Mother’s day friends (in the Eastern Time Zone anyway!)

I hope everyone of you have a sweet and blessed day. Mine was extra special as I had my honey, all my children, grandchildren AND MY MOM all together for a pool party in our back yard. I am telling you, there is no diamond; no yacht; no mansion; no trip to Tuscany that beats a gathering of all your family together in one sweet place.

My cup runneth over, as they say.

I am always mindful of those women who long for this day to be one when she finally hears someone call her “Mom”. It just makes me want to gather every one of them in my arms and remind them that THEY ARE LOVED!! God SEES the desire of your heart sister! (Ps 139:1)

As I close this very busy weekend I want to say thank you to all of you who took the time to enter my Passionate Mom book contest. I wish I had a book for each of  you I really do.

If you didn’t win it, PLEASE reward yourself and BUY A COPY. I promise you will not be sorry. As a matter of fact my friend Susan has a VERY SPECIAL DEAL going on right now!

It truly is an awesome book!!

So, with no further delay ’cause I am EXHAUSTED :) …..Drum Roll Please!!

The winners are:

Jan Heinen

Renee’ H

Carrie Walser

Ginese W

Barbara Baily

Congratulations ladies. Please email your mailing address to my adorable Assistant Alyssa at ashutty@awpm.net and she will mail your book asap!

I am truly honored to have you visit my blog and pray blessings over your coming week!

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Rescuing a Rat

One little “happy place” in life for me is to snuggle under my bed covers and read a book while the rain twinkles on the window. Somehow that soft sounds makes all things right with the world.

NOT SO MUCH when I am startled out of bed at 2 am by thunder and lightning that seems to be shooting at my bed and rain that is pelting the glass as if to break through at any moment. That is what happened night before last. Our whole house woke up thinking it was another one of those pesky Florida hurricanes. It was not, but it sure made our streets look like rivers.

Soon after I woke up my middle son called and began to tell me about a daring animal rescue his family had made after the storm.

A tiny little critter was discovered floating on the sidewalk in front of their home on the verge of death by drowning.

Oh my!

My son and Daughter-in-love and all the Grand “G’s” went to work to rescue the little critter, thinking it might be a baby kitty or a squirrel.

They wrapped it in a warm towel, lovingly nurtured it and whispered encouraging words of life over it’s wrecked little body.

As all of that loving care began to take hold, the little critter began to BLOOM :)

 

 

Oh goodie.

I wonder, had they known this was a RAT and not a Squirrel or a Kitty, would they have worked so hard to rescue that critter?

This past week, I spoke at a ministry event in Texas where a beautiful young woman shared her RESCUE story with me. Basically, when she went to the crisis pregnancy center in her community she was in critical condition. She had been beaten up and abandoned by her unborn child’s father. She had nothing but the clothes on her back and they were rags.

The team at this center brought her inside; wrapped her up tight with blankets AND LOVE and spent the next YEAR helping her get her life in order. She was a gorgeous example of what grace and love can do when it looks beyond the obvious and sees the possibilities.

THAT is what we do EVERY DAY at Life Impact Network in Tampa. Every day we RESCUE those being led away to slaughter as God instructs us to do in Proverbs 24:11.

ONE DAY each year, we have a Walk for Life to raise money to do what we do.

Rescue women who are faced with an unplanned pregnancy.

Restore women and men who have bought the lie of abortion.

Revelation 12:11—Release testimonies of the goodness of God and HIS REDEEMING RESCUE OF RATS!! (Read about mine here)

This Saturday, I am going to Walk for Life. I would be so honored by your financial gift to help us RESCUE more women and men who may feel like Rats but God sees as RADIANT!!

Here is my Walk for Life Page.

Everyone who makes a pledge of $25 or more will get a free book from me!!

 

Have you ever BEEN or RESCUED a RAT??

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Celebrating Easter

 

 

Happy Easter friends. I have such a great Easter post going on in my head but am not not sure if it will get from my head to my blog before Mother’s Day :) so…. I decided to share some family fun as a blessing to you for Easter.

I enjoyed some fun in the kitchen with one of my 2 Daughters-through-love last night. After we enjoyed some impromptu Shrimp and Grits and Oyster Stew, Kim (@everythingesty) and I took a stab at a little treat I found on Pinterest to share a family picnic today.

Doesn’t it look BEAUTIFUL! (Kim makes everything look amazing but this REALLY tastes as good as it looks and is SO EASY you could make some at the last minute.

Here is the Recipe: (I doubled it)

1 bag white chocolate chips

1 bag mini rainbow marshmallows

1 TBPS or shortening or veggie oil

Easter Sprinkles

Line a glass baking dish or cookie sheet with parchment paper. I LOVE William Sonoma Perpetual Parchment Paper (personal hint—DON’T give your daughter-through-love a very sharp knife to cut the completed bark with or no more perpetual parchment paper).

 

 

Put White Chocolate in a bowl with the shortening and microwave in 30 second increments until it melts.(usually about 2 minutes TOTAL!) (WARNING-Do not overcook the chocolate, it may look a tiny bit lumpy until it is stirred really well.)

Add the marshmallows and stir them in quickly. Don’t over stir and melt them just cover the marshmallows with the melted white chocolate.

Spread mixture onto your covered pan and put in your freezer for 20 minutes.

Remove from freezer, cut into small squares or you can use a “Pam” sprayed cookie cutter for shapes, and hold yourself back!! I mean hold your KIDS back :)

Speaking of KIDS! I wanted to pass along a wonderful Easter Egg Hunting idea I pulled off my friend Susan Merrill’s  (Passionate Mom) blog last week. This is an AWESOME idea I wish I had had for my own kids but will use today for my “G’s”.

 

 

Happy Easter my friends. JESUS Lives!!

John 10:10

 

 

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Words for the Generations

Sometimes, I make messes with my words.

Sometimes, I say things that I wish I had not said or that I at least had said BETTER.

Sometimes, God uses my words to bless or encourage, to teach or inspire, to support or motivate. I like those time better.

Proverbs 25:11 says

A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.

Yum. I want to sweeten my life and the lives of those around me. I want my words to shine like silver and reflect the Jesus that I love.

One of the things I am learning more about each day is that AGE MATTERS when it comes to chatters :)

I am learning, usually the hard way ’cause that’s how I roll, that not only do my words matter but it matters how OLD the person is that I am talking to. Yep. Different age groups, hear differently.

Here’s the skinny.

 

The “Silent” Generation (born before 1945)

Like to feel respected and honored; they appreciate good grammar; tone of voice matters as much as what your are speaking; they don’t like cussin’ or slang words like “this sucks”.  See, if you are in that group or even close that word makes you cringe! This group is pretty private and don’t really mix personal family business in with business business. They have pretty clear boundaries between those two worlds.

 

Baby Boomers (1946-1964) ME :)

We like RELATIONSHIP based discussions. I want you to CARE about how I feel and what I think because I am going to care about it very much. I can not easily separate my work/ministry from my heart. I FEEL things in ways deeper than the obvious business discussion. Visions; mission; goals; passion; heart; reasons for my investment–all matter to me when discussing business, family, friends of faith.

 

Generation X ((1965-1980)

This group generally like things to be specific and to the point. Don’t mix a bunch of splitting paths into the discussion. Stick with the point. Stay on the task at hand. Be direct and straightforward. Send an email. Text a response. Be specific and stick with the plan. Stick with the facts as they are obvious. Don’t in/out or sideways. Business is business. Family is family.

 

Generation Y (or Millennials) (Born yesterday) (aka–after 1980)

These guys like a positive word. They love text talk but love face to face equally as much. They want time and attention. They want communication and information. They want to know why. They want mentors. They don’t like cynicism or condescending talking AT; They don’t embrace sarcasm. They have lots of personal goals and have a hopeful view of the world.

Now, think about a recent or current communication conflict and ask yourself—as I am doing as well—

How did I do with the person I am trying to communicate with?

Have I honored THEIR needs? Have I expressed my heart in the way THEY best understand?

Have my words smelled of sweet apples and sparkling silver? Most importantly, have I reflected the Jesus that I serve and love?

I’d LOVE to read your words!

 

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2012 Favorite Moments

Funny how some years are huh? So different for each of us. What is the VERY BEST for some can be heartbreak for others.

2012 was a “challenging” year for me. Beginning in January and moving through the entire year. Emotional. Lots of tough stuff. Lots of spiritual warfare. Lots of disappointments. Still, in the end…when its’ all been said and it’s all been done…what really matters is still here. What I care most about, I still have in my life.

Faith. Family. Friends.

As I look back on this year and do some planning and dreaming for the new year my first priority on this January 1 morning is to thank God for HIS goodness, His faithfulness, His promises, His calling, His fatherhood. His blessings.

Memorable Moments in 2012

 

One of the sweetest things that happened last year was being a teeny-tiny part of the team with “October Baby” the new movie released in March 2012. I had the honor of hanging out with the amazing Erwin Brothers; becoming sweet-lifelong sister/friends with Shari Rigby and having sushi with her and Jason Burkey in Nashville. What a privilege to be part of this exciting work God did in so many hearts for the Sanctity of Human Life!

 

Watching my firstborn grandchild play in our home church youth band and worship God with his talent. A Generational promise coming true.

 

Teaching the  “Imagine Me..Set Free” Life Map and Freedom Journey to over 1,000 women in 4 locations.

 

Sharing the speaking platform with my beautiful daughter Julianna, 5 times last year. What an honor.

 

Having all of our kids, daughters-in-love and “G’s” together on a family vacation in the mountains. EVERY time we are all together in one place makes a memory for me.

 

Watching God weave a tapestry of life.

 

 

Watching my Mom dance on her 80th Birthday.

 

Meeting and praying for these brave women and celebrating the “WRAP” OF KNOCK TV’s first reality show using Surrendering the Secret!

 

Choosing a cover for my new book releasing THIS YEAR!! YHOO HOO! Who knew it would be my miracle girl. Only God.

 

 

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What is “Perfect Love”?

The tiny Delta Commuter flight that was to deliver me to Little Rock sang the normal squeaks and rattles, competing with the squealing baby seated behind me. As we taxied down the runway, I rested my head backwards, closed my eyes and began to pray. Mind you, my honey had already prayed for me, a sweet girlfriend had called me on the phone and prayed for me and I had already laid  hands on the little airplane door as I entered and prayed. All those things are routine for me, before–during and after, every airplane flight.

You see, I pretty much hate to fly. Unlike my daughter who is FLYING this little plane in Alaska!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

God has absolutely performed a miracle in me when it comes to airplane travel. There are now actually times now when I ENJOY a flight! He is good!

Up until the last 3 years I have done a pretty good job in my life, of avoiding my fears and airsickness, by just NOT flying. Then God called me up. Up to the air that is. When STS was published, I knew that I was going to have the opportunity to share some ideas with leaders in the church on how to minister to this particular heartbreak that is filling the pews.

I knew God was calling me UP, out of the comfort zone of my little local ministry, into the Nations.

So….I have been flying.

I have flown in and out of just about every state in the US multiple times. I have had more bumpy flights than smooth ones. I have flown in rain, hail, snow, those puffy white clouds that look so pretty but make me want to throw up. I have flown on airplanes that are so huge I can not wrap my brain around them staying in the air. I have flown on airplanes so tiny they look like they belong in a toy box.

I fly only because I absolutely know God has called me to go where I go. I fly afraid. I fly sick. I fly with tears running down my face. I fly squished in next to people who, bless their hearts, take up their seat and mine. I fly because I desire with all that is within me to capture every ounce of blessing that God has planned for my life and to offer every ounce of surrender I can muster to make His name known.

On that day, as I silently uttered my normal prayers I heard God say, and not for the first time, “Perfect Love Casts out Fear”.

I asked Him, “Lord, what IS perfect love? I know you love me but I still have fear so that must mean I don’t HAVE perfect love, right?  How do I find “Perfect Love? I am not sure I will or can ever accomplish that, can I ?”

The next WORD I heard from God was “Not by might, not by power, but by my Spirit”.

It makes me think of my love for my honey. We have been married for 36 years. We have been to the dark side and back in our marriage. God rescued us and put us back together when we looked like a sad version of Humpty Dumpty. I LOVE my husband, with all that  is within me, but, man, does he hack me off sometimes–they are usually VERY important times…Like when he uses a whole bunch of dish towels in the kitchen when one would do. Or when he doesn’t have his cell phone on and I am trying to call him. Or how he parks his car in the middle of the driveway and I can’t get my car out of the garage. This is BIG stuff and it rattles my “LOVE” walk.

The truth is–

I do not love my husband perfectly.

I do not love my children perfectly.

I do not love God perfectly but HE loves ME perfectly and is always working HIS LOVE out in me.

Not by might–Not by power but by HIS SPIRIT, I press on.

How about you? I would love to hear how you measure your Love Walk, with God, with your family.

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The Family Zoo–On Vacation!

WhooHoo!

School is out–vacation time is here and FAMILY time has kicked up a notch–right? :)

My family is preparing for a fun time in the mountains–all 12 of us! Mom-Dad-3 adult children; 2 beautiful wives; 5 “G’s”. All in one house. All at one breakfast table.

I am beside myself. This is a dream come true! It is not just IN my prayer journal, it is on the COVER of my prayer journal!

It is going to be a blast–right?

I first learned about family personalities and dynamics as a young Mom, from one of my mentor’s Florence Littauer. Her books and seminars about personalities basically changed my understanding of what a ZOO a family can be. Since learning the 4 basic personality types, I have used this information for many years both personally and professionally.

I am now using my own version of the personalities called “A Garden of Personality” in my woman’s conference “Imagine Me..Set Free”

Here is how they look:

Butterfly (aka–Sanguine/Otter)–Fun, loves a party, likes to have lots o people around and things going on–mostly that are all about them :) doesn’t like a plan, prefers to go with the flow.

Hummingbird (aka–Melancholy/Beaver)–Likes to have things organized and planned; loves details and lists; very creative and innovative; likes order and agendas!

Bumble Bee–(aka Choleric/Lion)–Likes to be in charge; tell everyone what to do; run the show; be the boss :) (We have a few of these!)

 

Lady Bug–(aka Phlegmatic/ Golden Retriever)–Likes to rest; sleep late; watch movies in their PJ’s; take their time; not have an agenda and not be told what to do! Easy to get along with once they get up :)

 

OK–let’s translate that to a family vacation–all in one house, at one breakfast table each morning! Here’s what I’m thinking..

 Some want to party; some want to play.

Some want to stay home and sleep in all day.

Some want to organize each meal and each hike.

Some want the whole group to do what they like.

Some want to play games and watch TV ’til dawn.

Some want the sunset to mean no lights on.

Some want to plan out the days next adventure.

Some think a “planner” is just a fun quencher.

The hope that I hang to is a whole slew of GRACE….

…..as God makes a memory of the ZOO in that place!! 

 

Can you put your family in that garden??

 

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Don’t Miss a Kiss

Could this be YOUR child??

I love Mother’s Day.

My honey has never missed spoiling me on Mother’s Day. I know, it’s supposed to be the KID’S who spoil the Mom but my honey has always added the icing on the cake of my Mother’s Day blessings. He just “gets it”. He had a Mom he dearly loved and he has always honored and blessed me as a Mom.

In fact, I was Mom when we met. A VERY YOUNG Mom.

I started the priceless journey of motherhood when I was just a girl myself giving birth to my first son just weeks after my 18th birthday. WOW..little did I know what an amazing journey motherhood would be.

Every Mama knows that being called “MOM” is the most bitter-sweet name we will ever have in life. Filled with times of such joy and blessing that your heart explodes and lights up like a fourth of July firecracker–contrasted by moments that hurt so much they look more like the ashes LEFT BEHIND on the 5TH of July morning.

Today, as I sit in my Prayer Chair and reflect on being a Mom, I started to think about what I might have done differently–there are MANY things! I thought about what advice, if any, I might give my Daughter-in-Laws (who are both AMAZING MOM”s, way better than I feel I ever was) or the young women I have the honor of mentoring. I wondered what I might share with my sweet daughter who is NOT YET a Mom herself, when her time comes.

There are so many things one might say about spending quality time; being consistent with discipline; understanding your children’s different temperaments and adjusting your parenting style to fit each child individually; being committed to your husband; teaching them to capture God’s Word in their hearts; READING to your children…….dot..dot..dot.

The truth is, we are not ever going to be PERFECT MOM’s.

We are sinners saved by grace.

We are NOTHING without Jesus and HE ALONE will get us through parenting without ruining our children. He alone will be our ONLY hope of enjoying any lasting success as Mom’s.

So, my morning conclusion as the KEY to Motherhood….Don’t miss the moments that make it all count. Don’t miss the spontaneous “I Love You Mom” moments–they are priceless.

Most of all—

Don’t MISS A KISS!! :)

My Most Precious Mother’s Day Gifts!–Tim, Andy and Julianna. Come on over here and let me KISS YOU!!

Happy Mother’s MOM–You are THE BEST! I’m waiting to kiss you too :)

Happy Mother’s Day friends.

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